Paul Myles Heffernan

Born: Wed., Jul. 1, 1931
Died: Mon., Feb. 20, 2017


Visitation

9:00 AM to 11:30 PM, Sat., Feb. 25, 2017
Location: Morris Funeral Home


Funeral Service

12:00 PM Sat., Feb. 25, 2017
Location: St Matthew Church


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Paul M. Heffernan, 85, of Southborough, died on Monday, February 20, 2017,  at his home, surrounded by family following a courageous battle with cancer. He was the beloved husband of 60 years to the late Muriel Mary (Nevins) Heffernan who passed away in 2012.

Born in Brighton, he was the youngest son of Irish immigrants, his father, John J. Heffernan,  was a Boston Police Patrolman and his Mother, Mary, 'Mollie' (Stanton) Heffernan, a former chambermaid in Brookline. 

Paul was a former high school guidance counselor and teacher in the Wayland Public Schools for nearly 30 years, He would continue to receive letters of thanks from his students long after his retirement in 1988.
 

Paul was a football, hockey and track star at Brighton High, and placed third all city in the 40 yard dash in 1948. He held several jobs at Boston College, including supervising the filling of the reservoir that is now the BC practice fields, before meeting his wife Muriel “Dee” Nevins while attending night classes at Bentley.  A whirlwind 6 month engagement followed. Shortly after their marriage in 1952, Paul enlisted in the military, where he rose rapidly through the ranks of the Army Security Agency while stationed in Germany. Foregoing Officer Candidate School and a possible appointment to West Point, Paul applied and was accepted to both Boston College and Northeastern. He selected Northeastern as it allowed him to return to the states earlier to rejoin his wife. He would also return to BC not as a student but as a night security guard. Heeding a call to teaching, he would eventually earn both an undergraduate and master's degrees in education at NU.

While attending day classes at NU, working at nights BC, dad found time to befriend many of the Jesuits, even driving one Jesuit regularly to visit his ailing sister on the south shore between classes. Dad also joked that he never got in trouble the night he fell asleep at BC when football rival Holy Cross painted the BC eagle purple.

In 1959, Paul and Muriel settled in Southborough where they would raise their four children. Always involved in the community, Paul was an active member of St. Matthews Parish, coached town hockey & baseball, and was a summer counselor at the Fessenden School.

He was the devoted father of  Lee P Heffernan and his wife Ruth, of Norcross, GA. Michael J Heffernan and his wife Peggy, of Wellesley, Paula Heffernan Paquette of Monroe, NJ.  and Karen M Roy and her husband Michael of Grafton; loved grandfather of 10 grandchildren, Patrick and his wife Kerry, Casey, David Heffernan; Tyler and  Bailey Paquette; Kendal, and  Kyle Roy; Caroline,  Elizabeth and Jack Heffernan; loving  two great grandfather of Kellen and Maeve.

He was predeceased by his siblings Mary 'May' , John J. 'Bud' and David S Heffernan.  

Visiting hours Saturday , February 25, from  9 to 11:30  AM, at  Morris Funeral Home, 40 Main Street, followed  by a noon, 12 PM funeral Mass at St. Matthew Church, 26 Highland Street, Southborough. Burial will be in the Southborough Rural Cemetery, . Relatives and friends are kindly invited. Memorial contributions  may be made in Paul’s memory to St Jude's Children's Research Hospital (stjude.org).

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Darla
   Posted Wed February 22, 2017
Paula and family:

My deepest sympathy and condolences on the loss of your father. My heart aches for you during this difficult time.

love you Paula

xoxoxo

Darla

Holly Hatch
   Posted Thu February 23, 2017
Thinking of all of you and hoping that the wonderful, happy memories of your dad will help bring you comfort in the coming days. He was such a special man and will be remembered in our hearts forever!

Fondly,

Holly and family

stephen and cathy horgan
   Posted Thu February 23, 2017
Lee and Family.

We are sorry to hear of your loss. Although I never met him. it sounds like your Dad was a terrific person. But, I already knew that by knowing you.

Sympathies.

Stephen Horgan

Mary Walters
   Posted Thu February 23, 2017
Mike

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. You always spoke so highly of him and having a son like you i am sure he was a very special person. your family is in my prayers.

Mary

Paul Mannion
   Posted Thu February 23, 2017

SPATHIPHYLLUM was sent by The Mannions.

Please know that we are thinking of you and your family during this time of sorrow. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared over the years comfort you now and in the days ahead. Love, Lisa, Paul, Trey and Cole Mannion


Tom and Kathy Wesley
   Posted Thu February 23, 2017
Sending our thoughts and prayers to you during this sad time of saying goodbye. Praying that you are comforted by your friends and family along with all the happy memories of your life together. Hugs, Tom and Kathy

Joe and Kay Dye
   Posted Thu February 23, 2017
We pray for you and your wonderful family as you morn. We know your dad was a wonderful man as we see it in you and your family. May God bless your time together with your family and friends who love you so much.

Donna Blood Ahern
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017
Dear Michael and families, I am extremely sorry for the loss of your dear father...May all your wonderful memories bring you comfort along with knowing he is at peace and reunited with your lovely Mom...may they both be Rejoicing and resting in peace on their new journey....my thoughts and prayers are with you all..xoxo. Donna

Rick and Ingrid Moyer
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017
Ingrid and i send our sincere condolences to Paul's family. Paul was a great guidance counselor, great friend, great team player and a great family man. I so enjoyed and appreciated the time I got to work with Paul on the guidance staff at Wayland High School. I always considered Paul a true friend. He was a very special person. God Bless. Rick Moyer

michael walsh
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017

TRADITIONAL FUNERAL BASKET was sent by Mike Walsh.

My sincere condolences to the entire Heffernan family. My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. I consider myself extremely fortunate to have crossed path's with Mr Heff and his entire family. All the best. Mike Walsh


Sandra and Paul Burke
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017
Dear Lee, Ruth and family,

May memories of your Dad and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Warm Regards,
Sandy and Paul Burke

ron ranauro
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017
Dear Mike, Lee, Paula, and Karen: Sorry hear about the loss of your dad. Great family man and neighbor.
Sincerely,
Ron

Nick Just
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017
Dear Paula, Tyler and Bailey ,

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Mo and Nick

Jack nemensky
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017
Dear Lee, Mike, Paula & Karen, my deepest sympathies for your loss. We have all lost a great guy. Having known your father for 55 years or so, I considered him both a lifelong friend and mentor. I shall miss our conversation we would have every couple of months when I would stop by to checkout his generator! He would always greet me as "his right fielder". It brought a smile to both of our faces!
Jack Nemensky

Jim Musgrave
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017
Sorry to hear about your Dad. He was a very important person to come into my life at just the right season. He was a very special person, as evidenced by his first class family. May his gentle spirit and wise counsel be perpetuated in those people he so graciously influenced!

God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble - Psalm 46:1

Jim Musgrave
   Posted Fri February 24, 2017

LAVENDER AND PURPLE TABLE VASE ARRANGEMENT was sent by Muskie.


Patricia Nemensky Joyce
   Posted Sat February 25, 2017
Dear Lee, Mike, Paula & Karen, Please accept my most thoughtful feelings to each and all of you on the passing of a wonderful dad to you all. No matter the age it’s a terrible loss. I recall the days spent sitting with Karen, Paula and the family birds while your parents attended Lee’s football games. Your parents were always a pleasure.

As with my family we are so lucky to have all good, fun and loving memories.


Joan Anastas
   Posted Sat February 25, 2017
Paula, Tyler and Baily,
Thinking of you and sending our sympathy in the loss of your Dad and Grandfather. No matter how long we have them it is still very difficult and sad to lose a parent. Also, please pass our thoughts to your extended family.
Love, Joan & Jack Anastas

Gail DuPont
   Posted Mon February 27, 2017
Dear Lee and Family,
I so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.
Gail (Fyrberg) DuPont

Tom Coveney
   Posted Fri March 10, 2017
Heff family:
Sorry for your loss. A great guy and a great leader to a wonderful family. He will be missed. May he rest in peace.

Tom & Tara Coveney